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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-30 06:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2401 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2401 ⌋

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Re: Agraphobia, androphobia, and my really dumb reason for them (tw: sexual harassment/assault)

[personal profile] pantasma 2013-07-31 10:31 am (UTC)(link)
Like they said, there is no such thing as "well-intended" sexual harassment. So long as everyone's on the same level with the joke I think it's fine, but as soon as it crosses the line it becomes harassment. In my life, I give one warning when my boundaries are crossed, then I take issue. Especially since you made it clear you were uncomfortable, though, it was simply sexual harassment.

That aside, it's likely not the root of your fear and anxiety. I highly recommend any kind of treatment available to you so you can manage your stress reaction. It sounds like the level of stress you experience could be detrimental to your health, not just your psyche -- all the adrenaline wears down the body! Nothing to do with the phobias, necessarily, just learning how to calm yourself when you physically, physiologically feel worked up like that.

By the by, I totally believe it took you an hour. It's nigh as stressful relating accounts as experiencing them, the first time around! Breathe through your nose, hon. It's okay.