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fandomsecrets2013-07-31 06:49 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-07-31 06:49 pm
[ SECRET POST #2402 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2402 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Saki]
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[Arrested Development]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 032 secrets from Secret Submission Post #343.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: TW depression & self-harm
Would it be possible for you to cut off contact so she CAN'T pull you back? Change your number/web handle, maybe stay somewhere for a while that she wouldn't be able to find you at, so you could have a clean break?
It sounds like you think you still owe this person something for 'staying with you'...I kind of doubt that is the case at this point, and it's certainly not grounds for continuing a relationship if it's actively making your life worse.
eta: and you really, really, really have nothing to be ashamed of here. It's not your fault that a toxic person is making you suffer - that's just what she wants you to believe.
eta2: you are too awesome to be suffering alone, and while not everyone responds to this kind of shit in a caring fashion, esp. not when the abuser is a woman, your friends and family might know more than you think but be unsure what to do about it or how to support you. They may also remember your previous signals that you've been needing help getting out of this.