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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-02 06:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2404 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2404 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[League of Legends]


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[Fuck City crew]


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[Jon Richardson, British comedian]


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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]









09. [SPOILERS for Sailor Moon]



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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]










10. [SPOILERS for the Godfather]
[WARNING for gore, animal abuse]



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11. [SPOILERS for Hannibal]
[WARNING for abuse, gore]



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12. [WARNING for eating disorders]




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13. [WARNING for underage]
http://i.imgur.com/J2FVb1W.png
[linked for photomanip of snape/hermione]


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14. [WARNING for torture? probably?]














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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #343.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Beauty vs other things

[personal profile] making_excuses 2013-08-03 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
I think the thing is that people use (and think of) the term beautiful differently?

Looking at pictures of people, not knowing their personality or aura (or whatever you want to call it) most people will rate you beautiful or not, or on some for of scale, though that is the attractiveness part of the expression.

Knowing people on the other hand, makes them beautiful, because you like them, you love their personality and their appearance, because that is what makes them uniquely them, which makes them beautiful for you.

I have friends whose appearance is really pretty and I have others whom are more average looking, but in my mind they are all equal and to me they are beautiful, because they are kind hearted, funny individuals whom I know will always be there for me! How they look means nothing for me in the end, except for an identifier, I like seeing their smiles and hearing their laughter, I love hugging them and hanging out with them.

And I think we all judge people partly for how they look? Be it their faces, clothes or way of expressing themselves, and it is naive to think we don't.

For me it is more important to make sure I don't judge groups of people, or don't give individuals a chance because I don't like the way they dress, not to find (or call) everyone I meet beautiful, because at the end of the day that does not matter as much as how you treat those around you.

And beauty is a thing, some people are objectively prettier than other people, that does not make them better, just like being smart or good at sports does not make you a better person.

I tried making my point, I might or might not have failed... I guess ask me to clarify before making assumptions if I was unclear.

Re: Beauty vs other things

(Anonymous) 2013-08-03 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
some people are objectively prettier than other people

Toooooootally disagree. Beauty is one of the most subjective things on earth.

Re: Beauty vs other things

(Anonymous) 2013-08-03 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
sure, but there are some things we're hardwired to find attractive, like clear skin, because it's often an indication of health and such. Some nurture, some nature.