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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-04 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #2406 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2406 ⌋

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Re: Friendship and appearance

(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
Once when I was in high school. We weren't that close, and once I found out more about him as a person I lost interest. It's not like he was a bad guy; I just found out that we didn't click personality wise or interest wise. There's a certain chemistry I need with someone where they have a personality, beliefs, looks, and common interests that I can dig. That and if someone doesn't at least hint that they're interested in me, I lose interest pretty fast.

About your friend, maybe find out more about him/her and realize that you might not click on an emotional level? Or possibly spend less time around them and more around other people you're interested in? This is assuming he/she doesn't have an interest in you. If they do or if you don't know yet, you should ask them. I mean, what's the worst that can happen? They reject you and you have the opportunity to find someone else?

original poster

(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 06:43 pm (UTC)(link)
That's kind of the thing - I don't actually want to make a move on him, it's a purely aesthetic thing. Like: you look at a beautiful vase when you're window-shopping, and you might go "wow" but you don't want to take it home. But at the same time, I do feel very awkward round him. We're still friends - and the thing is, we do click, very well, it's just that I feel nothing romantic for him. Sexual attraction is completely different though, and that's there.

I don't think he's ever looked twice, and that's fine. Neither of us are actually interested, it's just distracting being friends with a living oil painting.

Re: original poster

(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
DA
Is your friend's name Dorian Gray? Just curious ;)