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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-08 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2410 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2410 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[CSI: New York]


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03.
[Pride and Prejudice (2005)]


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04.
[Tripping Over You]


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05.
[Almost Human]


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06.
[Orange is the New Black]


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07.
[Molly Quin/Alexis Castle from ABC's Castle]


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08.
[VSauce]


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09.
[Sherlock Hound]


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10.
[The Leviathan Series]


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11.
[Welcome to Night vale]


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12.
[Gina Torres, Wonder Woman]














Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 025 secrets from Secret Submission Post #344.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Grieving and not sure what to do

[personal profile] tabaqui 2013-08-09 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
It is not weird or wrong that you're feeling this way. Someone who is important to you, and had a positive and lasting effect on your life has died. That is *hard*. You can talk about him to anyone you want, if you don't mind a short explanation of what he meant to you - even if they don't quite 'get it', if they love you, they'll listen. You don't have to have known his most intimate secrets for him to have had a profound influence on your life.

I'm so very sorry for your loss. If you can, attend the funeral or memorial. You can even say a few words to his family, like 'he was my professor and he helped me a great deal over the last (however long), I'm so very sorry.'

They'll be pleased to know he was fondly remembered by a student, and won't mind you being there, and it might help *you* to feel that you can say goodbye and shed some of your most acute grief.

*offers hugs*