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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-10 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2412 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree with the others that are saying you should talk to her.

But I also gotta say, don't put all your eggs into one basket. A lot of making friends is putting yourself out there to as many people as possible. I say this as an antisocial, shy, and introverted person, but back when I made fandom friends I talked to a few people at a time and I did meet ups with groups.

Fandom friends are just like real life friends, and the friendships can die for any number of reason. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, it's just life. That's part of the reason it's good to have multiple friends because then you have people to fall back on if one relationship doesn't work out.

Just dive back in, if you were having fun then keep having fun.
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[personal profile] hiyami 2013-08-11 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, this.
I used to be all "I don't need tons of friends, I'm perfectly happy having one good one". But it puts too much pressure on a single relationship.

And yeah, having also been introvert and not finding interest in small conversations... eventually if you engage conversations with more people you increase the odds to find people you will click with, and be able to befriend.

Also doing that means you'll act less awkward with experience.