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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-10 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2412 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2412 ⌋

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Re: would you judge a man for using a prostitute?

(Anonymous) 2013-08-11 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
I can't think of one that even comes close to using a prostitute, I really can't.

I mean I know that the fact that I'm using this computer means that I'm part of the same system that's destroying the mental health of factory workers in China. You're right. It's fucked up. But never in the course of my life - let alone every single day - have I ever taken advantage of another person's marginalization to violate their body for funsies. Not even one time.

Re: would you judge a man for using a prostitute?

(Anonymous) 2013-08-11 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

I think your buying a computer made by people working in unfair conditions is exactly the type of indulgence ayrt was talking about. You didn't harm those factory workers directly (much like how people who buy sex from prostitutes but don't abuse them don't harm sex workers directly), but by buying a product or service from an exploitive industry, you are only encouraging said exploitive industry to keep doing what they're doing as if that's totally fine and not ethically wrong. Basically, there's a double standard created out of ignorance and apathy in place when people will judge your moral integrity when you buy sex but not when you buy a computer. You should be judged for both.

Re: would you judge a man for using a prostitute?

(Anonymous) 2013-08-11 12:40 pm (UTC)(link)
"(much like how people who buy sex from prostitutes but don't abuse them don't harm sex workers directly)"

That's the part I don't agree with. You have sex with somebody who wouldn't consent to letting you penetrate them if they had better options, you are harming them directly. You are face to face with another person and actively deciding in that moment that getting your rocks off is more important than their bodily integrity.

I cannot imagine what kind of empathy deficit you need to be suffering to want to buy sex.