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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-10 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2412 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2412 ⌋

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[personal profile] forgottenjester 2013-08-11 07:44 am (UTC)(link)
I don't like you for doing this. Know that.

That said, I don't think you should push her to do something she doesn't want to do. Besides, if she calls them out she becomes the bad guy. She's the one who name names and she's the one who starts the drama that will engulf the fandom.

She becomes the thing people talk shit about.

Either she should confront them privately about their behavior, like a nice person would, or you get the job of shit-slinger. What if you called them out? Doesn't seem so appetizing anymore, does it? No. It doesn't. Honestly, she should confront them privately and in a nice, calm way. Say that their words upset her and she wishes they would stop or keep it to themselves. Now they look like the bad guys they really are and she comes out looking like a shining star and no one in fandom was the wiser. Maybe she loses their "friendship". So what? They weren't worth it, obviously. Now, if these people then start making it public and pulling shit in fandom they are then the ones that started it. They are the ones people will condemn. They are the ones who look bad.

Your friend will look all the more innocent.

But seriously, why can't she just quietly unfriend them and be done with it? Why must it be a fandom wide hoopla?
Edited 2013-08-11 07:47 (UTC)