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⌈ Secret Post #2414 ⌋

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[Akumu-chan / My Little Nightmare]

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[Star Trek: The Next Generation/Deanna Troi]

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[The Borgias]

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[Kaiba Seto and Jounouchi Katsuya from Yu-gi-oh!]

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[Spring Breakers]

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[Murder Rooms]

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[Twin Peaks]

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[Mass Effect]

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[Despicable Me 2]

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[Ice Age]

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[Arrested Development]

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[Super Junior]

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[Halloween]

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It sounds like he isn't that keen on it, though?

(ETA: sorry, I hit 'post' too soon by accident)

What does it meant to want a polyamorous life? Idk, honestly. You could try going to poly events and finding out.

A lot of relationships have the same libido mismatch as yours, though. Just speaking personally, we solve it with lots of masturbation, partially mutual. And hey, your SO could end up picking out a second partner and then finding he's just as mismatched with her as he is with you.

Edited 2013-08-13 03:26 (UTC)

Part of the problem is that masturbation hasn't solved it; he still feels frustrated and unfulfilled. The mismatch may be normal, but it seems that he isn't dealing with it as well as he thought he would. I want to help him.

You're right though; it would help to go to poly events or just talk more to poly people and try to go from there.

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