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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-12 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2414 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2414 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Akumu-chan / My Little Nightmare]


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[Star Trek: The Next Generation/Deanna Troi]


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[The Borgias]


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[Kaiba Seto and Jounouchi Katsuya from Yu-gi-oh!]


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[Spring Breakers]


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[Murder Rooms]


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[Twin Peaks]


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[Mass Effect]


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[Despicable Me 2]


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[Ice Age]


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[Arrested Development]


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[Super Junior]


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[Halloween]


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Re: Would you break up with your SO if they became obese

[personal profile] scabbyfish 2013-08-13 09:38 am (UTC)(link)
I know this makes me shallow but possibly. It depends how much weight gain we're talking. My last boyfriend was not my physical type because he was too thin - I mean, about 9st which is just at the low end of a healthy weight for his height, but seemed too thin to me. I'm borderline overweight/obese according to BMI (which is not the best indicator, I know, but is a starting point to visualise this stuff.)

If he'd put a lot of weight on and gone up to, say 14st I guess it would have been just fine with me, maybe even would have made him more attractive/more my type. If he went up to 30st then we would have issues because I just don't think I would find him as attractive and I don't want to have sex with someonoe I don't find attractive and I don't want to be in a relationship with someone I don't want to have sex with because sex to me is a big part of a relationship and I wouldn't want to be without it. Unless we could work out an agreement where I could sleep with other people while still being in a relationship with him but that'd be unlikely because most people wouldn't like that relationship (I know I certainly wouldn't if the roles were reversed).

That was very long because I apparently have opinions on this subject. Basically, if they got very overweight to the point I didn't find them attractive/want to have sex then I would try to either split up and stay friends or work out an open relationship.