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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-14 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2416 ]


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Re: No Strings Attached Sex, Is It Ever Really?

(Anonymous) 2013-08-15 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
As long as one of the players has a uterus and is fertile, there is always some chance of pregnancy. This is reality.

All the rest is stereotypes and expectation.

It is absolutely possible to sleep with someone and have nothing come with it but friendship. I know, because I've done it: I screwed someone for fun years ago; neither of us became attached, and we're still good friends, despite us having stopped sleeping together long ago and despite us now both being seriously involved with other people.

You have to lay ground rules, and you have to be completely willing to stop the sexin' if complications enter the picture. Head any issues off at the pass, and you should be fine and have a good time.

The pregnancy thing was me illustrating their hyperbolic doom and gloom.

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-08-15 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
I'm aware of the precautions necessary and the remaining risk. All good on that front. :)

And thanks. One of the things that has me thinking this is a great idea is that we don't have a friendship that might make things awkward. Just sort of an antagonistic flirting when in the same vicinity of each other by happenstance and if he agrees I don't exactly intend on following or preceding the activities with any date-like activities.
Edited (borked sl) 2013-08-15 00:24 (UTC)