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[ SECRET POST #2417 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2417 ⌋

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What do you all regret? no matter how big or small.

I regret accidentally dropping a bowl on my favorite mug and breaking one of the legs just now.
And not asking out someone I may have liked last year.

But I regret my mug a hell of a lot more.

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morieris - 2013-08-15 23:44 (UTC) - Expand

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morieris - 2013-08-16 00:53 (UTC) - Expand

Not continuing violin lessons after third grade.

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caecilia - 2013-08-16 00:41 (UTC) - Expand

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cadremage - 2013-08-16 00:23 (UTC) - Expand

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caecilia - 2013-08-16 00:41 (UTC) - Expand

Regrets, I've had a few but then again too few to mention.

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queerwolf - 2013-08-15 23:43 (UTC) - Expand

I regret that I will never have a meaningful relationship with my brother.

I'd say going to college. But more specifically majoring in Special Education.

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kaijinscendre - 2013-08-16 00:43 (UTC) - Expand

Avoiding being friendly with or defending a classmate who was laughed at and avoided by most of the year level. She desperately wanted to be liked and have friends. In hindsight, she probably had some kind of learning disability.

As someone who knew how painful loneliness can be, and who desperately wanted friends, I should have defended her, and I should have been a true friend to her.

My fear of being mocked & ostracized just for being associated with her turned me into a coward.

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(Anonymous) - 2013-08-16 02:26 (UTC) - Expand

Everything I did that ended in my current situation.

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thene - 2013-08-16 00:03 (UTC) - Expand

I don't know. I'm in the odd position of despising myself and my current place in the world, but all of that comes from my nature, not my choices. I can't think of a single choice I could have ever made differently that would have put me in a happier position.

TLDR I regret nothing, and I'm still not happy.

Not killing myself when I was younger. I'm not suicidal now, or at least not actively or whatever, but I do wish I wasn't around and think if I had gone through with it/was successful that first time things would be a lot better for everyone. Obviously that's not the case so I'm doing the best I can with the shitty decisions I've made (not the suicide thing) but sometimes I just really regret not killing myself.

Re: trigger warning: suicide

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Those were the droids I was looking for.

...losing my faith for far too long.

Eating those 6 little doughnuts yesterday

I wish I'd known my mother better. As is, I keep wondering if we would have even got along or not.

not getting like 50 copies of my college transcript when I had the chance -_-

Screwing up my friendship with a good friend in college.

I feel like everything else is too interconnected to honestly say I wish I could go back and do it differently. There's that whole change-one-thing-change-things-you-didn't-mean-to. I appreciate most of the places I've ended up in life.

There are probably others, but the ones I can think of right now: sex with my ex, college, never dyeing my hair blonde, and posting certain personal/potentially identifiable things on a certain message board.

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(Anonymous) - 2013-08-16 00:58 (UTC) - Expand

Being so awkward around this guy I was into, who I think was into me too. Part of me thinks I was that awkward it was all about hormones, because when I did date someone it wasn't remotely awkward, but that guy ended up not being that into me. This guy probably really, really was, and I blew it and I wish I could find him on Facebook, but I don't remember his last name, and he's probably married with kids by now. :/

Thinking that the English finals took place in the afternoon when it was actually morning. Had to retake the entire English course and say goodbye to six months of ease.

Also, not looking at more historical places in the Middle East before everything went down the drain.

Letting a great friendship lapse.

This is so dumb, but... leaving a college graduation party early. It was one of those things where everyone was just sort of standing around talking about plants or watching TV, so I left, only to find out things eventually picked up and there were all these pictures my classmates took together and stuff. I wish I'd stayed. I'm never going to see most, if any, of them ever again, and I lost my chance to say a proper goodbye. :(

Well it's secret confession time. If anyone remembers it, years ago there was a secret someone made about playing FF9 with someone, and that person died before they finished it. That was me. My brother was the one I was playing the game with. He'd get home from work really early in the morning, and we'd stay up playing for a while. If he got too tired I'd continue on to a save point and we'd pic up where we left off the next night. I fell asleep instead of waiting up for him the night he died in a thankfully single person car accident. I was woken up around six in the morning by Mom screaming. I don't regret falling asleep, I'm actually glad I did instead of staying up and getting pissed off at him for being late, only to find out he was dead. I'll always regret that we never did finish the game together though. I did once on my own, and just haven't been able to play it again since then. I doesn't hurt so much to openly talk about it anymore, it's still kind of awkward though.

Re: ...Possible trigger warning for death?

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Re: ...Possible trigger warning for death?

(Anonymous) - 2013-08-16 00:56 (UTC) - Expand

Moving back here.

I regret watching Elysium last night /was convinced to go