[ SECRET POST #2417 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2417 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How to stop missing someone?

[(Anonymous)]

I've been there. So many times. It's horrible.

One thing that helped me was talking things out with people. Everyone's had a friend like her - at least one. I've had many. I didn't even realize just how Not Cool some of the things my toxic friends said to me were until the way some of my other friends reacted when I told them! In one case I talked about it on LJ... I'd defriended the person so that was safe.

Also remind yourself that you deserve a friend who generally makes you happy. Who talks to you when you're upset, as opposed to faulting or blaming you.

I know this only helps so much. I've been there, and I wish I could tell you more, but I really can't. :/ I just... eventually moved on, I guess.

Re: How to stop missing someone?

[(Anonymous)]

SA - wanted to add that when I say I talked about the person on LJ, it was flocked and I didn't name names.

Re: How to stop missing someone?

[(Anonymous)]

If you do de-friend and talk about them on LJ, please don't do it if you have mutual friends hanging on. That's an ugly thing to put them in the middle of, and like it or not that's what you do by doing that.

Re: How to stop missing someone?

[(Anonymous)]

SA

Yeah, when I say I talked about them on LJ, I'm talking about someone who was not friends with any of my friends. When it was people who I shared LJ friends with, I didn't say anything about it.