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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-18 03:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2420 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2420 ⌋

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Re: Just need to vent about my sister.....

(Anonymous) 2013-08-19 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
Mm...A couple things: 1. What she eats is her choice. No matter how worried you are about her, trying to police what she eats isn't cool [and frankly, is more likely to backfire than anything]. You need to respect that she has the right to make those choices even if you disagree with them. That's generally part of loving people *and* part of being there for them, as much as it can suck.

From what you've said it sounds like you're trying to force your prefernces for what she eats down her throat ["I had to fight tooth and nail to get her..."] instead of backing off and letting her make her own choices. She may be your younger sister, but she's also old enough to make her own choices without someone trying to force different ones on her.

2. You seem to focusing more on her *weight* than her health. It is actually possible to be pretty healthy and be overweight - the majority of my mother's family. Yes, you have nasty things running in your family, and I'm not saying your worry isn't warranted...but that your focus on your sisters weight comes across as...a little much.

Also, your dad really shouldn't have told you that [nor should the doctor have told *him* that.]