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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-18 03:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2420 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2420 ⌋

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Re: Just need to vent about my sister.....

(Anonymous) 2013-08-19 06:11 am (UTC)(link)
+1 To all of this. Family members can do real damage even if they are trying to "help". I was subjected to a Mother who constantly told me I could wear something if I'd just "loose a little weight" and was totally fine with me skipping meals. It did not make me skinny, it gave me an eating disorder and made me hate myself.

The most amount of weight loss I've ever achieved happened when people left me alone about my weight and I came to my own realizations about what health and diet would work for me. I still have struggles because I suffer from clinical depression and the damage of me hating myself has already been done, but this is why I am very supportive of being more concerned with building self esteem then being obsessed with what a person weighs. I think if I had better self esteem I'd treat myself a lot better then I do.