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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-19 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2421 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2421 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-08-19 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon can relate to this so much, especially since she had two so-called friends ditch her. Long story short, first friend developed anger issues and she began to wear me down, emotionally. She didn't feel like the person I knew or remembered.

Second friend, I tried getting in touch with constantly, only to end up ignored. Weeks, yeah weeks, go by and finally I get a message from her on Skype saying that she's sorry for leaving me hanging, but that our interests were no longer the same and that we were better off with the good memories of our friendship. Which it's fucked up to me, since she ruined any 'good memories' I had of her.

Still TLDR here and partnered with the world's saddest violin song of 'No one gives a crap'.

The gist is: It sucks, and much as it hurts to say goodbye to people who you were once so close with. Fuck them. You can find better people to call friend and chances are, you'll feel infinitely better having those poisonous people out of your life, for good.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
Found myself identifying with some of your comment here. :)

Anger issues can be so oppressive in friendship. I know I've dealt with my own sometimes about stuff and don't need other people's as well, you know? I especially hate being jumped on for what I supposedly meant, and didn't. :(

I also lost touch with people who couldn't be bothered to write back or contact me. It makes me mad, to be honest, and poisons the relationship for me. I guess I take it seriously, being friends with people, and when they don't, I just can't feel the same way. Someone not writing for a l-o-n-g time or never just feels like a big 'f-u' to me. I've tried telling myself otherwise, but it hasnt' worked. If they can't bother to keep in contact, why should I?