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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-19 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2421 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2421 ⌋

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Re: To the Anon with the smelly friend....

(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
She's already putting her friends in an awkward position by getting up close and personal with them in a state that's so unpleasant for them. She's certainly allowed to smell however she likes, and even allowed to live in blissful ignorance about it for all eternity, but I imagine she'll want an honest explanation for why people who usually get along with her just fine with her are sitting down and shutting up as far away from her as they can get.

Re: To the Anon with the smelly friend....

(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
+1

I have had friends who suddenly starting smelling so badly, so frequently, that it caused me a great deal of physical pain from the headaches if I spent time with them. Is it better to stop being friends with someone or tell them what's up? I know I would rather my friends tell me I smelled so I could try to do something about it than potentially have all my friends decide they no longer wanted to spend time with me because of my odor.

If the person can't do anything about it or just wants to keep being smelly, they are free to make that choice as well, but they may want to know what their options are (regarding potentially losing friends due to said odor) ahead of time.

Re: To the Anon with the smelly friend....

(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 04:59 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, because everyone who has a condition beyond their control TOTES just wants to be smelly.

Re: To the Anon with the smelly friend....

(Anonymous) 2013-08-21 06:21 am (UTC)(link)
If she has a condition she can't help in any possible way, she should make an effort not to bloody hug people. It's terrible that she has to make that sacrifice, but better her than everyone around her, considering it's her condition, not theirs.