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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-19 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2421 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2421 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #346.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
First things first, they are probably not going to come back OP, no matter how much you want them to. You can try reaching out to them to test if there's anything left, but as someone who has experienced being on the opposite side of your position, it's not very likely. You might have thought it was over something stupid, but it might have been much more than that to them.

I had a very bad experience with someone who was a fandom friend that pretty much bordered on the side of emotional abuse. Yes, we had our good times where we squeed over our OTP and RP'ed and all that, but then there was the possessiveness and the jealousy. She'd make me feel like shit for even talking to other people and god forbid I ever played video games with anyone else but her. It was to the point where she'd guilt me and shoehorn herself into the games I was playing with others. She'd act out through RP how much I betrayed her for having other friends other than her, and I finally snapped after taking her special brand of bullshit for way too long. From what I've heard, she's been seeing a psychiatrist for some of her emotional issues, but I don't ever want to get in contact with her ever again.

I doubt that you had the same crazy, exceedingly toxic experience I had, but just understand that the other person may not be pleased to hear from you.