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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-22 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2424 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2423 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-08-22 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I had a best friend for 10 years. We had different fandoms. Vastly different fandoms, actually. I don't think being in fandom would've saved our friendship, as both of us had serious mental disorders to work through. I still miss her, but I have a lot more supportive friends in and out of fandom now to waste time pining for my old best friend.

Sometimes the reason you have a falling out could seem petty, but it's likely more that the straw broke the camel's back.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-23 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
This x100. I had a friend for 15 years (we met in kindergarten) who I had everything in common with, then after a while we drifted apart and she finally decided to end it because I was "holding her back". I miss her sometimes. And it sucks going through childhood photos and having so many of her in them, because it makes me wonder what the hell I did wrong. But eh, that's how friendship works sometimes. People just get...tired of each other, I guess.