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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-22 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2424 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2423 ⌋

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Re: jealousy issues

(Anonymous) 2013-08-23 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, that's a difficult situation :( Honestly, I think the best option would be to calmly explain your discomfort again. Does he know about the past bf who cheated? If he does, then hopefully he'd understand that making comments like "she's pretty" won't help at all. But letting it fester might cause an outburst, stalking, paranoia, etc. I wouldn't ask him to cut off contact with her, especially since they work together and that would probably have bad results, but maybe by hearing how you feel again will give the situation more weight to him and cause him to set some boundaries with her.

Another option might be to invite her to a party you're hosting or go to one of his teacher get-togethers, rather than dropping by his classroom unannounced to make him feel like you're testing him/don't trust him. That way you might be able to spend some time with his co-worker and possibly get more of a 'feel' of what her intentions are, or at least become more connected to her because maybe she plans birthdays the way she did for everyone. But if you don't want to get to know her, I completely understand.

IDK if any of that helped, but I wish you and your bf the best of luck!