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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-22 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2424 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2423 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-08-23 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Let me help put another nail in the "if only I'd liked the fandoms she liked" coffin.

Last year, a dear friendship I'd had for over a decade came to an end. We met through fandom, were very close for a while, even to the point of co-dependency for a few years. Even if we had different specific interests, they were always in the same general category (like we had the same favorite mangaka, but he loved one series she wrote above all others, I loved a different one).

Why did the friendship end? I started taking responsibility for my issues and getting help. My friend decided to stay in denial. When I found myself talking like a battered wife, enough was enough.

I'm in a much better place now, and although my friend pool is really small right now, they're all people who are truly loving and supportive.

I hope you find some new, good friends soon, OP!