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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-24 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2426 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2426 ⌋

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Re: Which is more obnoxious?

(Anonymous) 2013-08-24 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't know the situation, but I'd say overstaying you're welcome is far more obnoxious than both of those.

Of the two? Repeatedly asking. I get being insecure but by repeatedly asking you're making other people responsible for combating your insecurities. Leaving for ever isn't a good plan, but you're at least taking responsibility for your insecurity.
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Re: Which is more obnoxious?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-08-24 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)
i disagree. folks you care about dissappear with no explanation, you fucking worry about them and never know what happened.

Re: Which is more obnoxious?

(Anonymous) 2013-08-24 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

causing someone to worry isn't 'odiously or disgustingly objectionable' though. maybe disappearing on the same person repeatedly without explanation would be obnoxious but if you disappear just once and never come back, i don't think it quite qualifies.

unless everyone who disappears without explanation just once, even if there's a good reason for it is also 'odiously or disgustingly objectionable'.

Re: Which is more obnoxious?

(Anonymous) 2013-08-24 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually, given the reasoning behind the objection that Noodle offered, disappearing once and never coming back is worse. If someone chronically disappears for extended lengths of time and then returns to do it again, their friends will come to expect it and just start wondering, "Huh, I wonder where they've gotten off to this time?" Whereas the person who disappears once and is never heard from again leaves their friends thinking, "Oh God, I wonder if they're dead?"
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Re: Which is more obnoxious?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-08-25 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly. the needy person is annoying, but if I find somebody liek that again later in some other fandom or whatever, and they never said a goodbye? I'm fucking pissed.
Edited 2013-08-25 02:21 (UTC)