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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-30 06:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2432 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2432 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Leverage]


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03.
[Dragon Ball Z]


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05.
[John Cusack, Say Anything]


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06.
[Arrested Development]


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07.
[Star Wars]


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08.
[Easy A]


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09.
[Star Trek]


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10. http://i.imgur.com/XrNzg6P.jpg
[link for porny art, illustrated]


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11. [SPOILERS for Twin Peaks]



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12. [SPOILERS for dangan ronpa, fire emblem awakening, pokemon special, and gatchaman crowds]



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13. [SPOILERS for Shingeki no Kyojin/Attack on Titan]



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14. [WARNING for abuse/incest/non-con]



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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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[personal profile] dinogrrl 2013-08-31 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
It may not seem like it now, and it may seem impossible or pointless to try, but believe me...cutting a toxic aspect from your life is the best thing you could ever do for yourself. I'm not saying it won't hurt--it literally took me a full year before I could even think of the person without feeling all sorts of sickness and guilt and self-loathing and look at the situation with a more level-headed and critical eye. Now, I'm me again. I'm free, and I've learned how to keep myself free. It's been seven or so years since then. Haven't regretted it once.

Nobody deserves abuse. Nobody.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-31 05:00 am (UTC)(link)
seconding this

seriously op, it's not easy, but it's worth it in the long run, i swear
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Thirded.

[identity profile] lunayoshi.livejournal.com 2013-08-31 12:16 pm (UTC)(link)
It is SERIOUSLY not easy. It is very very not easy. But it is VERY VERY WORTH IT.

As hard as it may get, the harder part is to keep from "relapsing" and going back to them. I can only stress you find a support system that'll keep that from happening.

What I think will be nice for you is that you may not only be free of a toxic relationship, but maybe you'll learn you don't really care as much about having so many things in common with your RP partner as you do right now so long as they're nice to you. Or maybe finding another RP partner will help you realize there are other kinks (or whatever) that you like just as much.

I guess what I'm saying is that there are likely other unforeseeable benefits from escaping than just what's at face value. You'll be without the pain, but you can gain a bunch of stuff you never imagined, too. I hope that made sense. :) Good luck!

OP

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry for being so late to reply, I hadn't been able to get into the computer the past days.

You're my hero for being able to get out of an abusive relationship, and keep yourself from repeating the patterns. Makes me glad, and gives me hope. Thanks for your words.