[ SECRET POST #2433 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2433 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Welp, you're wrong. My demisexual partner has a higher libido than I do. So.

[saku]

demisexuality isn't a thing tho, and your partner is apparently not labeling themselves accurately. if your partner is sexually attracted to you and others then they're non-asexual just like the majority of the population. tell them i said congrats on not being queer.

[(Anonymous)]

My partner and I are of the same sex.
My partner is not sexually attracted to anybody else.
My partner has no schema for what makes people "physically attractive."
And yet, my partner gets horny and wants sex. With me.

inb4 "UR PARTNER'S LYING"

[(Anonymous)]

lmfao there's nothing special about them. demisexual is not an actual thing. your partner is just very, very selective. end of story.

[(Anonymous)]

UR PARTNER'S LYING

[(Anonymous)]

Sounds like a pretty normal LTR.

[(Anonymous)]

Not being capable of experiencing attraction to anyone other than your partner is "a pretty normal LTR"? On what planet, exactly?

[(Anonymous)]

Most people don't want sex outside of close relationships and are turned on by trust and intimacy, and can't get into sex outside of those circumstances. This is why monogamous marriage is a thing. Not sure how demisexuals decided that only liking sex in an intimate relationship made them unusual.

[logicbutton]

Everything about this comment is the opposite of reality.

[(Anonymous)]

You seem to have this bizarre notion that "capable of experiencing sexual attraction" = "wanting to pursue a sexual encounter." Most people experience sexual attraction to people they have no intention or desire to actually attempt to fuck. Your inability to understand this is what's causing you to fail to grasp the concept of demisexuality.

[saku]

that's not demisexuality's definition; the definition given is the act of not feeling sexual attraction towards someone unless one has formed some kind of bond or emotional connection. if your partner's only exception is you, and not because of that bond, not only are they using an unnecessary label, but they are also using it incorrectly, which is a feat in itself.

[(Anonymous)]

"the definition given is the act of not feeling sexual attraction towards someone unless one has formed some kind of bond or emotional connection"

That... sounds exactly like what AYRT said. What makes you think that AYRT's partner is attracted to them "not because of that bond"? Seems a really weird assumption to make.

[saku]

there was no implication that it was due to an emotional bond. nonetheless demisexuality isn't a real sexuality.

[(Anonymous)]

Well if you say so, then it must be true.

(I'm not saying it makes someone queer, but you're treating it like it's not a useful label or meaningful distinction at all.)

[saku]

it really isn't that useful. if anything it's slut-shaming and harmful half the time.

the thing is most people don't know what demisexuality is. it's easier to just say you won't have sex with someone unless you're close to them, which makes you part of the majority anyway.