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I was pretty much asking for clarification on OP's situation because while I get being a little possessive of your sleeping place it's not entirely clear this was a righteous indignation post and definitely didn't seem like the whole story. Honestly I got the impression OP is jealous of the girlfriend and isn't great at communicating or setting boundaries and rather than sucking it up and asserting themselves wanted to have people sympathize about what an inconsiderate person their friend is.

OP's subject line and the strange repeated emphasis on the girlfriend is what had me asking about the jealousy thing. And honestly not being able to stop yourself from obsessing about something someone else may or may not be doing is your responsibility, not theirs.

And as to your last point... are you implying that even if they had offered the guest is responsible to intuit that they're feeling pressured into offering and is a bad friend if they don't? I mean, you yourself said most people don't "get" how protective some people can be about their beds. I'm just not seeing anything that would indicate the friend was outrageously unreasonable.

Edited 2013-09-01 02:20 (UTC)

-shrugs- And from what I read, I got the impression the OP just didn't like their friend's girl friend, and felt put upon because 'Surprise! BTW, my girlfriend is coming too - still okay if we crash at your place?' with the plans already set up.

The thing with offering the bed - my point, since you seemed [and still seem] very 'WELL YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID NO, DUMBASS!' is that some places not offering the bed could, and would, be viewed as slight and have social consequences. Generally the polite thing there is for the quest to offer to not stay in their bed - but plenty of rude [or people who just don't realize it] don't do that. That wouldn't be the OP's fault. But then again, you've already made your mind up.

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