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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-02 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2435 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2435 ⌋

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Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-02 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
It's okay. It's going to be okay. There are other guys out there. You can still be friends with him and still be close to him, whatever relationship he has with this girl. Relationships aren't exclusive that way. There's no reason to suppose that he'll stop being friends with you if he's been friends with you this long.

Just try to relax, and try to do what you can to improve your life from here, to take things now as they stand, to learn a lesson and to move on, and ... uh... well, I don't want to be harsh, but maybe try not to be in love with someone for a year without telling them how you feel. But it's going to be okay. This isn't necessarily the end of anything, life is going to go on, you can handle this.

Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-02 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, thanks. I feel like I should have explained the circumstances a bit better, made a long-ish reply about it above, but basically - of this one year, I only had two months in which I was in a position to ask him out, and during those months, I thought I wouldn't be able to see him again after it was over, since we were both moving to different countries, but we kept in touch and reunited. I fell for his about a year ago, spent 3 months trying to get close to him, hang out for two, didn't see each other for five, plus minus some weeks on each.
And we're both emotional wrecks.

But thank you, I needed to hear that.