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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-02 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2435 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2435 ⌋

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Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-02 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
You probably should have told him about your feelings. You can't just reserve someone for yourself, not do anything about it, and then cry about it when they find someone they want to be with. It makes you sound like a toddler in a sandbox who isn't playing with a certain toy but throws a fit when someone else wants to. I'm sorry if this is harsh, but it sounds like you need a bit of a wake up call.

In conclusion, you're still friends with him so stop freaking out. You may also want to try befriending new people because you make it sound kind of like your social life revolves around this guy and that doesn't seem to be doing you any favors

Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-03 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
I really appreciate that people are calling me out on being dicking on this one. You're right, but mind you, I never been in love with a person this intensely before, and it was really sudden for me, so I'm feeling pretty crushed.

I have friends! And my best friend since 16 years is with me. We're in a new class that likes me better than the last one - but I can't really stop thinking about him, trust me, we didn't see each other for five months, and I just thought of him all the time, so of course I love my other friends, but in my dumb mind they just don't matter as much. You know? I'm trying, it's hard.

Sorry for getting so defensive, thanks for your input, I got a lot to think about.

Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-03 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
DA

it's easy to think of love as a "once in a lifetime/only ever with one person" kind of thing

but plenty of people fall in and out of love with different people

basically what i'm saying is there's millions of other human beings out there that you may also be compatible with! :)