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⌈ Secret Post #2436 ⌋

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[The Book Thief, The Days of the Deer, Neil Gaiman's Sandman]

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[Macklemore & Ryan Lewis]

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[The Glades]

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[Revenge]

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[The Killing (AMC)]

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[Star Trek]

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[TRON: Uprising]

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[Paul McCartney]

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[Les Miserables]

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[Mud by Yamashita Tomoko]

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[The Beatles]

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So one set of friends told me that my BFF is a shitty friend and that she better be doing a friend thing with me to celebrate a recent thing (to be fair they did see her being a shitty friend a lot but we see each other much less now which seems better for the friendship thing. I think we are celebrating my new job tho)

and it made me sad. Because I can't deny she was pretty shitty, but that was also last year or so onwards...but now I'm feeling a bit insecure over it because it was pretty shitty and I can't deny it hurts when I think about it.

But it made me feel a bit lonely because set of friends are in a committed relationship, BFF has a committed relationship and I...I have several friendship circles I pop in and out of (some are kind of weird/odd friends though? urgh curse this desire to please people), but no always-there-person?

Aaaw I think I'm being sad today. darnit

PS. FS is cool, I like FS. Even the troll-who-tries. This is a cool community.

Your friends do not have to like each other, and if you have patched things up with your BFF, it is nobody else's damn business that you stay friends with her, or whether or not you do this or that friend thing together. OTOH, it does sound a little sad that seeing a lot less of each other is "better for the friendship."

oh, to clarify she was my housemate for awhile so we were kind of oversaturated with each other, so dialing it way back to 1-2 times a month helped loads (she moved out and I got my own place). Wouldn't mind seeing her a bit more than that but, well, I work irregular shifts :C

Sometimes rooming with a friend can be the worst thing for a friendship.

I do that too where I will pop in and out of friend circles and I don't have that one set of friends who always hang out. I'm just grateful for what I have and take what I can.

Yeah, your friend probably has a point about your bestie and probably told you that because they're concerned about that. If it's still a serious concern or not is another thing, but I'm sure their concern was for your sake. I hope you guys resolved the issue, though.

And yeah, it's hard not having someone always there for you can be hard, but it can be fun switching things up with other people too.

I do hope your celebration goes well and you have loads of fun, though!

(And, yeah, F!S is actually pretty cool. Probably of the better communities I've been a part of at least.)

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