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⌈ Secret Post #2439 ⌋

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07. [SPOILERS for Iron Man 3]

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10. [WARNING for suicide]

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[orange is the new black]

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[Sherlock Holmes 2009]

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I think that if a person hasn't been a part of your life for a long enough time, you aren't going to feel the loss of them that much even if, once upon a time, you were fairly close.

There was this kid that I was fairly good friends with for a couple of years in elementary school. I remember going to his house to play a couple of times when we were little kids. Then we drifted apart, went to different schools, etc. When I was in high school, I found out that he'd died of a brain aneurism. I was surprised and a little disturbed at how little that news affected me. I mean, it was sad and I thought about how awful it must have been for his family, but it didn't really hit me personally the way it would have if the same thing had happened to a current close friend. And I think that's normal.

Try not to feel bad for the way you're reacting (or not reacting) to your grandfather's death, OP. If he wasn't really a part of your life anymore, there's little reason for you to be deeply and personally affected.

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