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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-09 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2442 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
I often hear this explanation: "Demisexuality means that you simply can't get aroused by people you don't personally know. This includes porn, no matter the kind." According to this a demisexual would only feel arousal if the pornstar was their friend and they liked them very much/had romantic feelings for them.

Isn't this a form of asexuality?
After all a lot of asexuals admit to being aroused by fanfic, porn, what have you. Some even masturbate. They just don't want the 'real' intercourse.

Or do you also think that asexuals who masturbate aren't "real aces"? :P

And for the record, I also don't think demisexuality is a sexuality. It's just a low level of sexual attraction.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
It's not about libido, though (which is what I took you to mean by "a low level of sexual attraction" -- if you meant something else, I apologize and hope you'll clarify). It's not a form of asexuality because a demisexual person can enjoy and desire sex. A demisexual person can be very, very eager and enthusiastic about the idea of having and enjoying sex... it's just that their pool of prospective partners is limited to people they have certain feelings for -- and it's not even just about sexual partners, it's about thinking someone is hot, or getting that special tingly feeling in one's underpants from looking at someone.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Being a sexual person involved with a demisexual person, I have to admit I am LAUGHING HYSTERICALLY at the whole idea that his demisexuality is "just a low level of sexual attraction".

I could elaborate but then I'd be late to WILD SEX O'CLOCK.