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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-09 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2442 ]


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da

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
"most" might be overreaching

but I'd say anywhere from 25-50% of the population, yeah

i daresay low sex drives/not wanting to bone everything in sight are far far more common than people think

it's just that a) not everybody likes to label themselves as gray-ace or demisexual or w/e (I reject those labels myself even though they'd technically cover me)

and b) western culture is so sexualized that there's social pressure on people (especially men) to make pretenses at hypersexuality even if they're not really feeling it

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
DA

SERIOUSLY. Just because I find someone sexually attractive, does not mean I automatically imagine us boning.
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Re: da

[personal profile] vethica 2013-09-10 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think that imagining boning has much to do with it one way or the other. I mean, I imagine having sex with people who I'm not sexually attracted to, so.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
I do too (but I have a weird mental... reflex? where I imagine sexually inappropriate and/or graphically violent/destructive situations at awful times)

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
in all seriousness, that is one of the symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
people have told me before that they think I'm OCD but I have resisted getting a diagnosis because

a) mental health treatment is expensive as fuck where I live and I've only recently gotten insurance that would even cover it

b) other than those visions, which I deeply suppress and never discuss IRL, I show no symptoms that negatively impact my day-to-day life

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
also wrt a) some people are completely unaware of the fact that labels exist for such things and/or they don't find it that central a facet of their identity