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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-09 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2442 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 01:24 pm (UTC)(link)
ignoring the circlejerk above, demisexual is a pretty perfect descriptor of me? I don't think I'm ~*oppressed*~ because of it, but basically to explain, I had literally zero interest or curiosity about sex until about 6 months after I started dating my boyfriend. literally zero. not "low". none. for 24 years. so this isn't early puberty or anything.
so that's what I make of it. and the term helps me because I was pretty fucking confused for a long term and having it says "oh some people are like this, it's okay." which is a helpful thing, even if you are not an oppressed person.
but I mean I'm obviously just a special snowflake tumblr bitch for it right gaiz because I don't know what's going on with me, I'm probably a silly straight hipster girl making it up to feel better about myself!! yeah no sorry try again.
also lo-fucking-l at the people so pointedly declaring which terms are okay. right, keep at it, because you sobbing anonymously about concepts you don't understand is going to make them go away.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 01:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Hun, what you experienced is not uncommon. It is in fact extremely normal, and dare the most excepted form of sexuality there is in the western world. You don't need a flashy title to explain what you are, because a good chunk of the population is exactly the same.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 03:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Your experience with other human beings is dramatically different than mine if you think that "most people" are essentially asexual (to the point of experiencing no sexual attraction or desire) when they're not in a romantic relationship.
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[personal profile] vethica 2013-09-10 03:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, this exactly. Your reasons for choosing to identify as demisexual are basically the same as mine: it helps to know that there are other people out there who are like you, and that there's a word for it, and that you're not a freak. So, thank you, basically.