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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-10 06:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2443 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2443 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sailor Moon]


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03.
[Taken]


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04.
[Hetalia]


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05.
[John and Edward Grimes/Jedward]


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06.
[Zoolander]


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07.
[X-Files]


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08.
[Amanda Palmer and Paula Deen]


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09.
[Once Upon a Time]


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10.
[Corporal Rivaille from Shingeki no Kyojin/Attack on Titan]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 035 secrets from Secret Submission Post #349.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-11 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
Neat trick I learned in college Psychology: other people don't cause us to feel bad; we do it to ourselves by dwelling on thoughts like "How DARE they! How terrible/horrible/awful it is that they did X when they should/ought/must do Y instead!" (Dr. Albert Ellis's "A New Guide to Rational Living," if you're at all interested.)

Consciously try to stop yourself from thinking these thoughts (not as easy as it sounds, obviously, but it is possible with practice) and remind yourself instead that you can't control what other people do, only your own actions. It's not a silver bullet, but it may help.