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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-11 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #2444 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2444 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-12 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
Lmao, crymaxing, yes, I'll be remembering that one. I dunno, there seems to be an excess of grown adults bursting into tears at the slightest emotion in fandom in general, and orgasm is just one of said emotions. It's always struck me as awkward and weird and usually shunts me out of a story when it doesn't fit my idea of a character (seriously, Spock? really?), but I figure it's a YMMV kind of thing. A lot of people get twitterpated over crying men, I guess.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-12 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I guess that's true. That's probably the reason. Just weird to me that so many people would love it so much that it's everywhere when I can't stand it >_> If some guy started sobbing in the middle of sex I'd stop immediately and ask him if he was okay, yet nobody ever seems to do that in doujinshi either - are they just jerks?
pantswarrior: Laguna scratches his head. (huh?)

[personal profile] pantswarrior 2013-09-12 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
Semi-related - I remember hearing a story from a friend in Japan of another Western friend who was also there (I think for JET), and acquired a Japanese girlfriend. So the relationship progressed, and the time seemed right, so they went to have sex, and when it started, she started crying and moaning things like "No, stop, stop!" So you know, not being a horrible person, the dude did stop at once and started to ask if she was okay. And she was like "Why did you stop?" And he was all "...........WTF" (which is why he wound up talking to other people about details of his sex life - he was seriously weirded out).

So it also might be some kind of gendered expectation thing in Japanese culture, and we know how some types of yaoi fans are REALLY into making one character the girl...

(Anonymous) 2013-09-12 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah I get the strong impression that it's a cultural thing, but... ...well these aren't Japanese guys, in the comics. They wouldn't have been socialized that way. Even if one of them was to try to play "the woman" he'd be making loud porn star-esque noises and raving about how much he wanted the other guy's cock.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-12 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
...And? Western fandoms make characters that aren't from the west act in ways that are, frankly, distinctly western all the time. *That* is just something fandoms tend to do in general.