[ SECRET POST #2445 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2445 ⌋

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[Breaking Bad]


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[Cillian Murphy]


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[Robert Downey Jr.]


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Comments

Re: Parents...

[(Anonymous)]

Wow. That sounds like a really toxic situation. Is there any way you can put some distance between you and them? GAH.

Re: Parents...

[(Anonymous)]

No

*sigh*

I can't drive....I can't go to anyone else and ask them to house me because everyone in my family his shit going on. They just don't see how they've crippled my ability to leave.

Which makes their "You've got to learn to be more self sufficient we're not going to support you forever, we don't want you living here when you're forty" worse. It cuts deeper because they make me feel pathetic.

After pressing it on me for years that I can't drive the doctors say I can't dive give up on driving, no you don't really want to drive, driving would be a huge waste of time and money. You can just rely on us...no ...no ..NO"

we FINALLY get a doctor who confronts them and suggests that maybe they should try and see. They give their reasonings why it scares them. "I'm emotional", "I don't follow their rules, so why should they think I'll follow the rules of the road?" "she's on her phone a lot what if she gets on it while driving." (the last one is probably the only good one, but I did tell them that I'd put my phone in my trunk if it meant I could drive.)

Later in the car they're I'll "Well if you wanted to drive so badly why didn't you prove to us that we could trust you?"

*throws hands up in the air* I can't fucking win.

Basically they expect me to rely on them rather than seek independence outside their "help" and get upset when I want to seek outside help. (my mom flipped when I suggested taking my medicine and finding a homeless shelter in the city. Told me those places weren't for me) But then they also complain that I'm not growing up fast enough. They want to be the ONLY ones who are allowed to help me and make sure I do it THEIR way.