[ SECRET POST #2446 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2446 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]




















04. [WARNING for gore, blood, etc]

[How To Train Your Dragon]


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05. [WARNING for child abuse]



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06. [WARNING for rape]



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08. [WARNING for torture]

[Fall Out Boy's "The Phoenix"]


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09. [WARNING for underage]

[pokemon conquest]


















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Comments

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

So much of how people bond is talking about sexual relationships. I can't get away from conversations where people talk about who they like, etc. and it's either fake it and feel like a fraud, or sit there quietly and not really be able to join in. Plus the intensity of emotion that all this sexual/romantic feeling seems to come with... I feel like my life would be richer if I could experience it.

I am aware that I need to make more friends though, it's something I'm working on.

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

While you should not doing anything you hate, if you are sort of ambivalent towards sex (as opposed to hating it), there are plenty of asexuals who have sexual relationships with their sexual partners. Find a guy (or gal) with a low sex drive and you can have the intimacy and all that.

Do you find that you are not interested in ROMANTIC partnerships at all or just sexual ones?

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

I think it would take a lot of psyching myself up to engage in sex. I've tried to cultivate an ambivalent attitude towards it (and in a way it's worse because I have a libido and I don't mind reading smutfic etc.) but the whole idea of having sex when the desire isn't THERE is just... ugh. The only time it seems remotely doable is when I'm drunk, and I'm sure as hell not going to put someone in that iffy-consent situation.

Same with dating; I'm not interested at all. I am going to date, I think, for the companionship, but I feel guilty at the thought of being in a relationship where they're in love with me romantically but I basically see them as a best friend.

don't force it

[insanenoodlyguy]

Obviously I don't have your perspective on this, but I can speak from experience that trying to go through with sex when you are legit not feeling it is the fucking worst.

I did some dumb shit in my younger days. Learned from it. So know I say that part from experience.

Even if drunk, especially if drunk, you are going to come out of it going "oh god was that a mistake." If you had to get smashed to get through it, that tells you something.