[ SECRET POST #2447 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2447 ⌋

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Comments

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

[(Anonymous)]

When I have a problem, I need to talk about it with several well-trusted friends. It helps me process. One of my friends is the opposite, and doesn't like to bother people with her problems. She just goes off by herself and doesn't talk to anyone.

It bothers me more than it should. I worry about her, and I want to be able to help her the way she helps me.

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

[(Anonymous)]

Huh, I can understand both sides. I hate talking to my friends about my problems, I feel much more secure discussing those things with strangers on the internet. However, when I notice a friend or close family member has problems and doesn't want to talk about them, it makes me very uneasy and anxious because I'm not able to help.

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

[tabaqui]

That's me - i have a problem, i don't want to talk about it to anyone, really. Trivial problems, sure, but not really important ones.

Tell your friend that you're there if they need you and if you can do anything, please don't hesitate to ask. And then drop it, because to have someone angst all over you when you'd rather they didn't is *incredibly* off-putting.

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

[comma_chameleon]

I'm sort of the same way as your friend. I have a very best friend that I know 100% that I could go to her with any problem and talk it out, same with my parents.

But most of the time I just don't want to be a bother. I don't want them to know how much pain I'm in (physically, not emotionally), or how tired I am, or how much I just want to curl up in a ball some days.

Mostly because I feel like my problems are 'stupid' because I know they're not fixable, and what good does whining about them do?