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fandomsecrets2013-09-14 03:26 pm
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Re: Manchild
(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)Actually the only guys I would call a "manchild" (and I don't use that word a lot as I'm not fond of it) are people who are entitled , people who act like toddlers throwing tantrums *which sometimes include alpha males).
Though there is some hypocrisy with some people who use it. Like I once saw some women who were screeching and complaining about their befriends /SO's "denying them sex" because they were on their period. If I was a braver woman I would have called them out on being "hypocritical womanchildren."
But hey who has the energy to put up with anon deaththreats and "go kill yourselfs" from radicals? Certainly not me.
Re: Manchild
(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:05 am (UTC)(link)But this:
Like I once saw some women who were screeching and complaining about their befriends /SO's "denying them sex" because they were on their period. If I was a braver woman I would have called them out on being "hypocritical womanchildren."
I don't get. How is complaining that someone doesn't want to have sex with you hypocritical?
AYRT
(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:21 am (UTC)(link)I would be understanding of the former but the latter and the way it was said. First of all "denying me sex" for 1 week of no sex. "Denying me" just sounds so rapey. I would get it if it were "they never have sex with me" but just one week. Also there was the whole issue of....maybe the guy doesn't feel comfortable with period sex? I mean really having sex while someone's gushing blood I can see how that would be a turnoff. Having experienced it myself. But they were just like "he HAS to have sex with me I want it NOW."
That's well..the kind of attitude that if a man showed regarding a women, expecting her to have sex right then without regard to her comfort, well that would be entitled and rapey. SO I really don't see why it should be any different because a woman is doing it. *shrug*
Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:36 am (UTC)(link)I know a woman whose husband never wants to have sex and seems completely uninterested in sexual things in general (I think he's asexual, personally, but I don't think either of them realizes that's a possibility) and she's constantly whining about how he's denying her sex and he needs to do it whether he wants to or not because it's his "duty" to satisfy her, and yeah, the whole thing comes off as a little creepy and rapey. (Like the time she gave him some sort of pill that was supposed to make him want to have sex--not Viagra but something similar--without him knowing about it because she knew he would never take it willingly.)
Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:48 am (UTC)(link)Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:56 am (UTC)(link)Yeah, she...has issues. He has his share too (about other things) but when it comes to sexual stuff she has some pretty fucked up ideas.