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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-14 03:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2447 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2447 ⌋

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Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a crush on my ex-boyfriend's friend.
My ex-boyfriend still loves me.
Guess I'm gonna hang it single for a while longer.

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Your ex is your ex. I say go for it.

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you still friends with your ex? How does this friend you have a crush on feel about you?
On the one hand, I assume you're all adults and should be able to deal with such a situation. On the other hand, if you're still friends with your ex it would be harsh for him to see you and his buddy together all the time.

You don't need to put your ex on a pedestrial, just don't treat him like his feelings don't matter anymore.

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, we're still friends so I don't want to make things too awkward right now. Although he is making things awkward as well.
They run in the same circles, I'm not entirely sure how close they are personally, I know they're not like, best friends or anything but I think they're relatively close.
All of his friends were really understanding when I broke up with him and we all still talk. I'm scared they might get a more negative view of me if I start looking like I'm just bouncing around their friend group even though it's not like that at all this was so unintentional.
Anyway, I don't know how his friend feels about me yet so I'm just gonna lay low, not be as forward as I would otherwise, and see how everything stands in a couple of months.

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 07:26 am (UTC)(link)
Good on you for not going there. Not only do you not want to be the kind of asshole who dumps a person and then immediately starts dating their friend, but you also don't want to date the kind of douche who would go out with their friend's ex when they know the friend is still hung up on them. You can't help having the crush, but you can help what you do about it, and I genuinely applaud you for doing the right thing.