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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-14 03:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2447 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2447 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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caecilia: (meenah looking smug as hell)

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

[personal profile] caecilia 2013-09-14 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll glady take a couple of those ladies off your hands.

(Sorry, that was awful. Really I hope you get things sorted out. I don't think you have anything to feel guilty about unless you are lying to any of them or being deliberately manipulative.)

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
No, it wasn't awful at all! You're a nice person.

... That's the problem, though. Since I'm fucking unsure of what path should I take, I haven't-- Been completely honest with any of these 4 people. Not manipulative, I despise users, and I swear to God I'm not one. But I haven't told them everything yet. Because I don't know what to do, or how to say what I mean. So yeah, I feel guilty as fuck.

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-09-14 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Would you say a lot of your hesitation to be completely honest is because you're afraid of saying something they don't want to hear? Is it that you don't know how to say what you mean or that you don't know how to say what you mean without disappointing someone?
caecilia: (aradia)

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

[personal profile] caecilia 2013-09-14 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Aww, thanks. <3

You're going to have to come clean, and sooner is better than later. I've never been in a situation quite like this, but when I have to talk about something serious it always helps me to write a letter first. If you pretend you're writing it to them, but have no intention of ever sending it, you'll be able to be completely honest, and it'll help come up with a gentler but still direct way of saying it to their faces. You could also ask some impartial friends what they think (I guess posting on f!s counts as that?)

For what it's worth I don't think you're a bad person or a 'slut', but I do think you need to do something about this or it's not gonna get any better. And I hope it goes as well as possible for you.