[ SECRET POST #2447 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2447 ⌋

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Comments

Re: It's that time again (non-fandom confessions)

[anonymouslyyours]

So... I'm hardly one to talk but I get a serious vibe that maybe you need to chill and take some time to yourself. You sound like you prioritize other people's wants over your needs and have a hard time saying no or setting boundaries.

It doesn't sound like any of these relationships are something you really want? "I can't deny him anything," "That made me freak out," "WON'T let me go".

I'm hearing a lot about what other people want and you don't know what you want but know you're unhappy.

You are not a slut and do not have any reason to feel guilty. You might be confusing some of that guilt for emotional drainage. Sex is nice and you probably get some kind of validation from being wanted but it sounds like these arrangements aren't actually good for you or fulfilling in the long run.

I also suspect I might be projecting but I just want to say: Someone wanting you is not your responsibility or obligation, you do not owe anyone anything just because they like you, even if the attention makes you feel good.

So yeah maybe take a break and figure out what you do want before things get messy or unbearable for you.