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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-14 03:26 pm

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I hate when people

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
make a derisive comment about your gender (assuming your are male usually) and when you disagree with them they assume you're lying. I had that happen once.

I was in a conversation with this really radical woman who was calling men "animals" and I disagreed and she said "I doubt you're really a woman" and then made a comment that if men did to me what they"did to most women" I would "learn" not to defend them. Pretty much "if you got raped you'd learn not to like men".

When I called her on that she backtracked and then said some bullshit about how she would defend any woman from rape but it would be a "silver lining" if I got assaulted that I would "learn a lesson".

*shudder*

Re: I hate when people

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
What? That is effing out of line. Sorry that happened to you, anon.

AYRT

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. It was a long time ago.

It just sucks how some people online suddenly think anything goes the moment someone disagrees with their opinion.

That's why I feel a little bit safer in discussions in a controlled atmosphere, either in a classroom type area. I mean I know some people get mad and assume you don't "care" when you want to avoid Social Justice issues. But sometimes it's more because I've experienced people being downright hateful and awful in those discussions.

and it's not just to people who said something wrong either. The assumption that people only get attacked because they did something wrong ignores a lot of things, like the cruelty of some people online. It's why I get so mad when I see people brushing off criticisms of Tumblr and social justice discussions. . It's not because I hate justice but because I see things happening that shouldn't be ignored. I wish the "angry crusader" types would be less encouraged.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Ironically, that reminds me of a post I saw on my dash a while back basically calling tumblr sjws out on their crap. It wasn't perfect, but it was really nice to see.

Re: I hate when people

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Jesus.
elaminator: (Mass Effect: Joker - what is my life)

Re: I hate when people

[personal profile] elaminator 2013-09-15 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
Holy shit, what a horrible fucking person.

Re: I hate when people

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
That all sounds horrible, but to be totally fair you really do not need to be defending men.

AYRT

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
I believe in not referring to people of either sex as animals. Sorry but that's just common decency.

It's one thing to complain about sexist men, it's another to call an entire gender "animals" or sub-human. I wouldn't like it if it was done to women, so why should I think it's okay when done to men.

I believe in feminism as "equality between the sexes" and if there's one thing in the world that pisses me off it's double standards.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
and what right do you have telling OP what opinion's she's allowed to have.
Gee I thought feminism was about FREE CHOICE.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Anon said she didn't need to defend them, not that she couldn't. Which is true.

OP

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 07:23 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not like I defended rape. I just disagreed with the statement that all men were animals. Which is a factual statement.

Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez

Re: I hate when people

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 11:49 am (UTC)(link)
I get the sense that most radfems are truly incapable of relating to women who aren't part of their cloistered groups.