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Re: "I talked to my boyfriend about porn

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My boyfriend does watch porn, and so do I, and we talk about it openly and send each other our favourite porn (long distance relationship most of the year...)

However, I would hope that if I did have serious ethical objections to porn and expressed to him that I was made uncomfortable by his consuming it, we would at least be able to have an honest conversation about how to work it out so that I wasn't constantly worrying about it; maybe by looking into the moral philosophies of different porn sites and companies and only choosing ones that I felt acted ethically, by me sending him pictures to make up for lack of other porn, or by him at least cutting down on his consumption.

I mean, probably none of these would be quite satisfactory to a person who didn't want their boyfriend watching any porn at all, I don't know because I don't really understand the sentiment. But I still think that if you care about someone you should at least try to work out ways of being that don't make them uncomfortable, especially if its a sexual issue. And if you tell your boyfriend that you have moral objections to porn and he doesn't think that's worth any conversation, either you just don't have compatible views of morality or he's just a shitty person who doesn't care if his partner is comfortable around him sexually.