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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-15 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #2448 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2448 ⌋

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Re: How do you become less of a people pleaser /doormat

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Be more selfish. Stop excusing people's shitty behavior when it doesn't deserve excuses. Just because someone is having a bad day, does it mean they should be taking it out on you, friend or stranger? Stand up for yourself when people are trying to make you feel bad about things you shouldn't. If people disagree with your opinion or taste and treat it like you have shitty taste, don't stoop to their level. Try to agree to disagree and if they can't do that, remind them that just because they don't agree with something, that doesn't mean it sucks. You can be sympathetic and remember your feelings count too. Good luck.

Re: How do you become less of a people pleaser /doormat

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 06:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. *nods* Thanks.

I notice that when you're on the internet ,standing up for yourself and calling out someone who's being rude to you just gets responded with "you're just butthurt" and mocked. Or the person who you stood up to just throws out another insult about how "retarded", "pathetic" or "stupid" you are. On an intellectual level I know it's just a last ditch effort to get the last word but sometimes it still stings.

I'll work on it though.