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blahraghagha relationships and stuff

[(Anonymous)]

there's a TON of comments above me so I doubt anyone will read this but I just need to vent

so a few months ago I went on like, three dates, with this guy. he asked me out, and initially I was kinda... annoyed? because he kept messaging me online and talking to me, and I felt like I didn't really have a lot to talk about. also I wanted space . BUT offline we got along really well. we liked most of the same stuff, shared similar opinions on things, and we'd just talk for ages. and he was just a really chill, happy, awesome person to be around.

anyway I ended up turning him down because life in general was busy at the time and I wasn't sure if I was really attracted to him. (because he wasn't exactly Michael Fassbender.) but mainly because I was terrified of being in "A Relationship" and opening up to people. we parted well and he continued to be amazingly nice about it all.

like, if I was writing an ebay review, it would be "10,10, the sort of guy you'd take home to the parents"

anyway I disappeared for a while, although I occasionally found myself hoping he was happy/sort of idly wondering if I should contact him again & talk to him. fast-forward a couple of months and i'm about to delete my facebook, and he messages me. and we just chat online for a bit and it's as though nothing ever happened, no awkwardness.

and now I find myself wanting to ask him out, but that's so STUPID, i'm the one who turned HIM down in the first place.

(to make matters more complicated, I think another friend of mine is also interested in me.)

so I don't know. here, have this wall of text.

Re: blahraghagha relationships and stuff

[(Anonymous)]

Ask him out.

Like, seriously, it's probably not an issue, and you can't just assume it is, and the only way to find out if it's an issue or not is to ask him out. You want to go out with him, and he probably wants to go out with you, so ask him out. No need to make it more complicated than that.

Re: blahraghagha relationships and stuff

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I guess so.

I just feel like such a douchebag for changing my mind on him, though.

Re: blahraghagha relationships and stuff

[(Anonymous)]

Nah, it doesn't make you a douchebag, it's just people. That's the way things are.

Re: blahraghagha relationships and stuff

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks, random anon! I feel a lot better now. :)

Re: blahraghagha relationships and stuff

[(Anonymous)]

Ask him out! You said no because of reasons particular to that time in your life (busy, not ready for relationship, etc.). Those are things that change. Hell, LIFE changes. We all change all the time. It isn't even remotely stupid to ask him out now that you want to/are ready. And even if someone does think it's stupid, so what? Life is for living and being happy. Do what you want to do and ignore the idiots who would laugh at you pursing whatever makes you happy. It sounds like something a parent would say to a 3rd grader, but they really are just jealous. Live your life how you want. And if that includes asking out someone you earlier turned down, so be it.