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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-17 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2450 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-09-17 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Sounds like porn addiction.

this

(Anonymous) 2013-09-17 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
"fanfic"/"fandom" aside, op is describing the textbook symptoms

you gonna need to get some help and/or quit cold turkey for a few years to get better, op, sorry

(Anonymous) 2013-09-17 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep, this. It's really common. It's like drugs; starts out awesome and then you need more and more to achieve the same high. Or, in this case, more and more extreme things.

Lay off the smut for now, OP. Don't read fanfic at all if the temptation will be too great. And don't masturbate for a while either. You'll balance back out again.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-17 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
No it isn't. If it isn't effecting their life (enjoying kinkier shit in made up land is not affecting a life), it isn't serious enough to be called an addiction. Is anon missing work or school? Is anon getting failing grades? Is anon participating sexually with someone who is not of legal age or consenting? If not, enjoy your kinky porn.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
but that's the thing, anon says they can no longer get off to even the most extreme stuff they're looking at. so it really IS a problem for anon, isn't it?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Fic =/= real life. Hell, fic =/= ACTUAL porn. I read smut like crazy and I never get off on it. But pretty mild porn gets me off all the time.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
No one's telling anyone not to enjoy kinky porn.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
"Is anon participating sexually with someone who is not of legal age or consenting?"

What the hell does that have to do with being addicted?
Are people addcited to anything automatically rapists?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
Not people addicted to "anything", but it can be a problem with sex addition.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 09:46 am (UTC)(link)
Have you never heard of the term "functioning alcoholic?" What about people who can't stop smoking? You don't need your life spiraling into the gutter like a Lifetime movie to be addicted to something.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 12:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I was gonna point out smoking, too. It's like...so no one who's addicted to smoking is actually an addict, now? I guess that's good news? Or something?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 01:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Are these anti-extreme porn people the ones who wanted to start that vanilla or no rape (whatever) kink meme awhile ago?

Seriously, there is absolutely nothing wrong with liking extreme porn. If OP needs to masturbate five times a day and this interferes with her real life responsibilities and relationships, yeah. But who gives a fuck otherwise? Assuming her own sex life doesn't rely on more and more extreme stuff.

I've never once gotten off on written vanilla sex. I always need bondage at least, and I get that when you've read the same thing over and over again you want something new or a little harder to surprise you. Especially when in the fanfic world, writers tend to generally use the same tropes, same words, same formula. Does it affect my real sex life? Nope.