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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-17 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2450 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2450 ⌋

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Re: I feel bullied in my home

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Your situation sounds pretty awful OP, sorry to hear that.

My mum is an a-grade nagger and good at getting nasty if you don't do what she wants, and I hused to have such a bad reaction to her nagging that it would verge on a panic attack - which of course she dismissed as me being melodramatic and lazy. So in my teens and twenties I developed a technique of - first thing, before she had a chance to nag me - telling her what I was going to do today to immediately appease her. And then I would bugger off to my room, or the library, or a coffee shop, and destress. I was able give myself some breathing space - as well as allowe my mum to get on with other things in her life than nagging me.

Do you think you might be able to manage something like this?

Re: I feel bullied in my home

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 06:11 am (UTC)(link)
I think I could. *nods* I could make applying the first thing I do in my morning routine