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⌈ Secret Post #2450 ⌋

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Comments

I'm a porn writer who finds most sex scenes boring as hell

[nyxelestia]

As many people around the thread have mentioned, this escalation issue is a red flag for a lot of other problems and can lead to other problems...but otherwise, on its own, it's not really an issue. There are a lot of people who need really extreme porn to get off, but like actual vanilla sex just fine, or milder kinky stuff. Or, they can make the really kinky stuff work in their relationship. And some people don't have sex, period, and that's fine, too (variations of sexuality).

It really only becomes a problem if you have a relationship with someone with whom you are trying to have sex with and actually interested in having sex with, yet can't achieve sex without extreme kinkiness. That's when you will need help, and should seek it out. Or, if you get to the point where you are desperately trying to masturbate and want to get off, but absolutely nothing will, then that's also something you should seek professional help for. But otherwise, if this smut escalation is not affecting your sex life - whether because your sex life functions fine regardless of your smut/porn habits, or you just don't have one - then I wouldn't worry.

So while you should keep an eye for if this escalation issue starts impacting other areas of your personal or sex life - which it can or can act as a red flag for - I wouldn't worry about the 'problem' itself.