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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-17 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2450 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2450 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 031 secrets from Secret Submission Post #350.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't take these "it's you" remarks to heart, OP. People are not the best judge of character when they don't know your entire story. Take those remarks with a grain of salt, especially the ones who think you are bitter.

Groups can develop personalities, too. They change over time and on the internet this process can be quick. Some internet groups tend to reflect RL groups, including high school cliques. Some are more open and friendlier.

People tend to move on to other things, too, quicker these days.

Maybe you will be happier with a different group, or maybe even a group of a different kind of people.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
Christ, this. The "nerdy groups" can be just as mean and cliquish as stereotypical high school cliques. You'll find assholes anywhere.

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 03:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Gonna add a +1 to this. I'm surprised how negative the response to this secret has been.

I do add to the recommendation of talking to them about it before jumping to conclusions, though; it could just be a misunderstanding.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-19 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
At the same time, they're coming across extremely entitled in their wording.

"I mentioned it first, but they don't get into it until SOMEONE ELSE NOT ME does!!!!"

Jesus Christ, WHO CARES WHEN THEY GET INTO IT OR THAT YOU INTRODUCED THEM ALL.