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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-17 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2450 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2450 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
Could be a lot of things. Mostly I'm guessing desensitization. The stuff that gets me hot really only does so if it's a rarity, because soooo much smut is very formulaic. I mean, the same thing happens IRL with very real sex; you do the same thing every night and it's suddenly habitual, but even "boring" vanilla sex is great if you give it some time in between. See also: why so many products are marketed to long-term/committed couples as a way to "spice up" their sex lives.

So I suggest mixing it up. Take a break, move to a new medium, read for a new fandom or new pairing (or revisit an old fandom/pairing), find a quality rec site (so you're getting really well written smut of all kinds instead of the usual blowjob-1finger-2finger-dickpenetration formula) or just read super plotty fic with sex somewhere in it (so there's all the UST buildup that acts as a sort of foreplay). Or, you know, keep kinkin' away!! But since you've said it like it's a problem, any of these others might work.